“sometimes we just don’t feel like the plan we made”
I am always navigating myself in this world, every day I try to trust what the day will bring but often it brings in the unpredictable moments despite the planning. The word navigate seems overused in my vocabulary at the moment. I use it to refer to how I feel my way through my career, relationships and health choices. It seems like a word that I can really make use of and that can adapt to anything and any challenges in my life.
Sure, navigating used to be about getting from one place to another. But nowadays, it's more about going with the flow, exploring new horizons, and seeing where life takes you.
Conventionally, there's a common belief in the linear progression of life, marked by a clear beginning and end. Yet, our journey spans far beyond mere points of origin and conclusion, offering continuous opportunities for learning and personal development. This destination we seek may not adhere to traditional solidity; rather, it may take on fluid, intangible forms. Perhaps, it's a journey without a fixed endpoint, where the pursuit of growth becomes the destination itself.
What I'm aiming to convey here might not be crystal clear, but as I was exchanging messages with a close friend, both of us employed in caregiving roles, the topic of energy levels emerged, as it often does. We frequently discuss the challenge of preserving energy for ourselves while fulfilling our caregiving duties. It's an ongoing process, one I aspire to improve upon. At the end of her message she wrote:
“sometimes we just don’t feel like the plan we made”
We often plan to experience life fully, but sometimes our plans don't align with reality. Despite our expectations, plans often change, leading us in unexpected directions.
So….the journey of life is a constant navigation through the unpredictable waters of existence. While we may try to chart our course and stick to our plans, we inevitably encounter unexpected challenges and detours along the way. However, it is in these moments of uncertainty that we truly learn to navigate - to adapt, to explore new horizons, and to embrace the fluidity of our experiences.
As we reflect on our personal journeys, it becomes evident that life is not a linear path with a clear beginning and end, but rather a continuous voyage of growth and discovery. We must learn to let go of rigid expectations and embrace the inherent unpredictability of life.
In our quest for balance and fulfillment, it is essential to recognize the importance of self-care and flexibility. Just as sailors must know when to set sail and when to drop anchor, we too must learn when to forge ahead and when to pause, replenishing our energy and reassessing our direction.
